Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law

Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law


Introduction:

Ever since ancient times of the Vedas, dowry has been a tormenting part of Indian marriages. Sad but true the evil of killing the girl child, which is one of the worst crime against women, came up from the practice of dowry system. In ancient days, when the evil cause was more seriously followed by people of all castes, the poor ones thought of killing the girl child when they were born to get rid of paying heavy amounts as dowry. Enlightenment came, reforms were made, yet these evil practices continue to ruin lives of women everywhere. In 1961, Dowry Prohibition Act was passed, but still more than 10,000 dowry cases are registered every year. Some of these are genuine complaints of tortured women but then there are some cases which mark the misuse of this law. The home ministry has recently asked all state governments to be judicious in invoking the stringent anti-dowry section of IPC in matrimonial disputes as the provision may be used as weapons rather than shields by disgruntled wives.

Dowry prohibition law should be strict:

1. Bride burning and torturing of women for dowry is still an integral part of Indian marriages, especially amongst the poor and illiterate families, who are unfortunately the major part of Indian population. Only strict laws and punishments can ensure that the violator of the law pays the price for harassing women. Any sort of relaxation to the law would lessen the fear amid already fearless people who commit such inhuman acts.

2. Female infanticide, sex detection and abortion are all crimes that initiated from the evil practice of dowry system. If equal rights and freedom is to be given to women in India, the root cause of the evil has to be removed first. It is only then that we could stop other crimes against women.’

3. The narrow mindedness of the society that feels the birth of a girl child is a burden on their parents has to be removed. Instead of feeling blessed, the parents begin planning on how they will get her married when time comes and what all they will have to save for her marriage. A girl’s right to education gets left behind these thoughts. For a developing country, the contribution of well educated women is of great importance. A complete ban on dowry system is the sole solution to achieve this.

4. Gender inequality prevails in India and dowry system is one of the reasons why it is still popular even when women are coming ahead in all fields of science, economics, politics, and even in army and air forces. To treat a son and daughter equal, it is important for the parents to realize that they don’t have to spend all the savings of their life to get her married one day.

5. Marriage is about promise of being together in good and bad times. The dowry system makes it a trade where one party pays the other party for not harassing their daughter. If they fail to fulfill their greedy demands, the daughter is burnt to death. Only strict laws can stop this kind of evil practices.

Dowry prohibition law should be amended:

1. False complaints have been detected in many cases and some of them have spoilt lives of men and their family. In order to trouble the in-laws or revenge the husband for a dispute, insane women file false complaints of dowry harassment which in turn proves life spoiler to the husband. Some of them lost reputation, years in jail, loss of job and businesses, and some even committed suicide after being penalized for a deed they never committed. It is extremely necessary that these laws should be amended to help preventing such cases.

2. There has been great rise in dowry complaints in recent times. The National Crime Records Bureau statistics has it that nearly 200,000 people, including 47,951 women, were arrested for dowry offences in 2012, but only 15% of them were convicted. This shows that the law is being misused and needs amendment.

3. The women who are abused for dowry are usually of the poverty struck areas and they hardly make use of this law. There are thousands of dowry harassment cases that are not even reported. It is not laws that solve all the matter. Educating men and women is necessary. They need to know that both have equal rights and evil practices such as dowry is punishable offence.

4. Non bail laws of dowry harassment leads to arrest of innocent men too and that also without an investigation. This kind of law leaves easy loops for being misused.

Conclusion:

Dowry system is an evil practice, no doubt, but the law must be further amended to ensure justice to both men and women. Home ministry correctly instructed their police officers not to automatically arrest a person when a case under Section 498A of IPC is registered but they must satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest under the parameters laid down flowing from Section 41, CrPC.
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  • RE: Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law -J. K. Agrawal (07/21/16)
  • A woman gets free housing, free meals, free (expensive) clothes, free cosmetics, free jewellery, free car, free air-conditioner, free water, free power, free telephone, free medical care, free domestic and foreign pleasure trips and all other necessities, amenities and luxuries of life in her husband's house. She gets TV, fridge, geyser, microwave, gas stove, washing machine and all other household gadgets completely free of cost in her husband's house.

    All these amenities cost money. They do not come for free. There is no reason why husband or husband's father alone should provide these and not wife or wife's father? Ideally both the parties should contribute equally in arranging these things.

    A husband inherits all his father's movable and immovable property, whereas a wife gets just nothing from her father. A wife comes empty handed into her husband's house like a refugee and becomes the owner of all her husband's and her father-in-law's assets and property just within one day.

    All fathers search a groom for their daughter who is earning very well, is well settled, and whose father owns a lot of immovable property. They make extensive enquiries about not only the boy's salary and finances but also his father's, before settling the alliance. They never forget to ask how much jewellery will the boy's father will give to their daughter. But if boy's side even asked one question about how much 'stree dhan' will they give to their own daughter at the time of marriage, they will climb at the top of the world and shout that they are being demanded dowry. Such is the greediness and double standards of women and their parents.

    Dowry is a very very small (infinitesimally small) portion of the money which is needed for arranging the amenities of life which a newly married couple will need in its life. Not giving anything to a daughter at the time of her marriage means that one should keep everything for one's son. So, sons are precious and daughters are worthless!

    Our boys have been emotionally blackmailed by the Indian society with the logic that asking for dowry or any share in father-in-law's property is against their 'mardanagi' (manliness). Its time boys stand against such blackmail and recognize, demand and do not forego their rights.
  • RE: Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law -azim (08/31/15)
  • Dowry is really worst phase in human society .Its as worst as bloodshed in war . How could people be so inhuman ?? .Dowry leads to many crimes The system of dowry is illogical and that it should be stopped .Simple solution to stop dowry is that the family asking for dowry should be hanged upto death.Because taking dowry itself is a big crime as in murder or inhumanly exploiting a girl to whom instead should be taken as a daughter .To those who wish for heavy dowry..don't u have a daughter at home ?? What if such behavior is done to her? Think about this from your view !!
  • RE: Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law -lata (11/11/14)
  • The dowry system in india is evil. It is totally insane. Dowry is foundation of all crime like killing girl child and other crimes against women. In ancient time, if there was not a system like dowry then today our india will be a better place.
    I think government and Indian people are equally responsible for this condition. Government should take strict action against this system and give equal rights to both man and women. But it is not totally depends on government we young generation should decide not to take or give any kind of dowry before marriage.
    If we do this then only our india will changed and next generation will also changed.
  • RE: Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law -Ojas Hanje (11/09/14)
  • hello, as you all know Dowry is the main reason for female infanticide and abortion in India and everyday we see its increasing in numbers day by day.And the people following these dowry system mostly comes from poor , illiterate and narrow minded society, One more reason for dowry system followed in India is gender inequality, India is male dominated .To solve the dowry system problem in India is by educating a girl child, make her independent and then she will be not a burden for her family perhaps they will be proud of her.
  • RE: Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law -Deepak bhandari (11/08/14)
  • Hi my name is Deepak. from my point of view dowry is not bad if it given by the parents without demanding by the opposite. For example. if a middle class girl marry in a poor family and her parents give her dowry for her comfort then it not bad but if the opposite demands it's then it's very bad
  • RE: Dowry is evil but so is the misuse of dowry harassment law -Deepa Kaushik (11/02/14)
  • There is no doubt that the tradition of dowry has turned evil to the extent of death of women and this in turn had given rise to the trend of female foeticide. The female infanticide has been controlled to some extent, but we are still unable to abolish this dowry custom from our country. This is not only because of the weak law and order situation in the country, but due to the stigma associated with the mind-set of people in our society who turn the lives of the girl and their family to a living hell instead of offering them a supporting hand. This has led to lack of reporting of the dowry torture cases.

    Though the dowry is evil, but we cannot deny the fact that few females are making this law to their favour and misusing the same. The immediate arrest of the husband and their family prior to investigation into a non-bailable offense often ruin the lives of the innocent males and their family members.

    Dowry system should be broken off with the awareness amongst our youngsters who have the ability to transform our society and their mind-set. They are the future of the nation who could break this stigma and give Indians a new outlook and approach. Making the dowry laws more strict would just harshen the conviction and leave less room for the innocent males to prove their innocence.

    We should provide equality to both the partners before law and any judgement should be preceeded by good investigation in order to provide justice to the needy.