Is a relationship serious only when you go official about it on Social Media?

Is a relationship serious only when you go official about it on Social Media?

Introduction

Social Media is enjoying the limelight in the present era. Every recent update is well preached, spread and conveyed on a grand scale by means of social media. The social networking sites have made the world come closer, and have got their hands on every aspect of human life. Be that be business, or friendship, or social circle or family; every relationship is getting its valuation through the various posts on these sites. The pictures and videos represent the closeness of the couples. Gone are the days when privacy was preferred between the couples, and they hardly tried to project their closeness before the world. The relationship have their true value only through the undue projection through the posts and announcements on these social networking sites. Is that really that much important for a relationship to get on screen and display their chemistry? Is a relationship serious only when you go official about it on Social Media? Let's see -

Yes

- People are getting more social and they interact well with their family members in this social networking range. They like to develop their relationship through the social sites in comparison to spending time in person. So, making an official annoucement through Social Media is as good as telling the family personally about it.

- The seriousness of the relationship can be well established when the same is revealed in front of the world, so social media is of most importance.

- The more serious one gets involved into the relationship, the more they discuss the same with their near and dear ones. As we are living in a world where the life is totally dependent on the social networking sites, so the official notification really holds importance to value the relationship.

- Social media has made the life blissful with close interaction with everyone irrespective of the distance in physical world. Every true relationship is getting developed and flourished through these sites.

- When a relationship is accepted publically by partner, it definitely adds to the secure feelings of another partner.

No

- Life doesn’t end with social media. People should understand the extent of usage of technology, and value the relationship in physical world over the media and technology.

- Privacy is a very important factor in the lives of the couples. True relations gets blossomed with close interaction and conversation in the extent of privacy and not with the loud announcements through the notifications and posts on facebook and other sites.

- Relationships are true when they can understand each other. The social media can only help in advice and suggestions but we can hardly find these people coming and standing next to us in our defence when required. So, we can not determine the depth of a relationship by its disclosure on social media.

- There are many Indians who don’t know the use of social media till date. It doesn’t mean that their life has ended or they don’t deserve a happy living. Life never stops with the social media. It is just a tool to share our happiness and agony and let out our emotions.

- Posting the pictures and videos and sharing them with friends can add up to the joy of a happy living, whereas they cannot be taken as a definition of a healthy and happy life. Every picture clicked is not true in its feeling. Pictures and presentations are mere projections in the artificial world and hold no relevance with the reality.

- Some introvert kind of people may not want to make their relationship public unless it is socially and legally recognised. We can not doubt the seriousness of such relationships.

Conclusion

Relationships have their value with respect to the feelings and emotions within the human souls and it has nothing to do with the social media. What social media has done is to helped us remain in touch with our near and dear ones to share our emotions. This has helped a bit in revealing the inner thrust and get over the psychological outbursts. These things are not symbolic representations of a happy living. Relationships are like a garland knitted with beautifully chosen flowers. It blossoms with true feelings and exchange of thoughts in the extent of privacy. The line when the limits get broken, we get out to the verge of shamelessness and lose our culture and value of a rich lifestyle. Hence, it is very important to live the relationship with trust and understanding rather than mitigating it in front of the world.