live in relationships should be encouraged

I don't think that live in relationship should be encouraged.There are several reasons for this-

(i)If u love someone and trust him/her, then why do you afraid of giving it a name?Marriage is a sacred institution where society celebrates the union of two souls,but live-in-relationship none of family members are involved and are uncertain about their children's future.

(ii)Taking the example of western country does not prove that it is GOOD & should be practicised.Do everything the western people does is RIGHT,so we should follow them blindly ?

(iii) India is always known for its moral values and ethics. When the western people are attracting towards India because the love & warmth they found in Indian families(note family can be created only when a person get married),is it resonable to follow live-in-realtionship ,just to show you modern and trendy?

(iv) Some say that it helps in the growth of an Individual-what it means that marriage does not let grow ? The FACT is that there are plenty of examples where people in the marriage are quite sucessful,in the current context we can see-Chetan Bhagat,Vishwnathan Anand,Sachin Tendulkar...etc.The truth is that growth does not depend on the type of realtionship -BUT on how you handles the difficulties.

(v)Moreover ,live-in-relationship are totaly insecure,they give joy of four days and lifelong stigma of "uncivilised behaviour"..we are humans not animals so should show a civilised behaviour.

(vi)There are no. of cases from small and metro cities where the boy fled after learning the girl's pregnancy,leaving her alone in the hand of soceity.Some killed the girl for not aborting the baby...so you can imagine what is consequences and future of live-in-relationship.