Love it or leave it - but stop cribbing about it

Love it or leave it – but stop cribbing about it


Welcome to the world of life. Here all the things are available in plenty and still people face scarcity. The rich people have unlimited resources, money and power but they want more, the middle class family has a fair job but still they want more and the beggars- well they are better. They don’t crib about what they are but accept it and live it. Even if they crib they have a reason to do so. So what you feel like, loving or leaving?

Loving

• Life will offer you choices every day. You are the one who has to decide what you want to do in life. Before you take any decision make sure that you can love and accept your decision. Take the example of Shahrukh Khan who had a passion for acting and worked hard to prove his mettle in film industry.

• In the present world youngsters don’t want to get involved in arranged marriage. It is their choice. They find a partner of their choice and prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. But after some time they are seen cribbing over petty issues. It is their choice which they made it without any external influence. So loving by heart and accepting the relation is the way to live the life.

• As the evening approaches and friends meet each other they start discussing about the problems they are facing in the job. The number of people who are dissatisfied with their job will surpass the people who love their job. What is the reason? Why is this dissatisfaction? The reasons can be many but cribbing in any case will not make things easier. Only the efforts will.
• This is the season of election. Every one wants to bring in the best government to make the economy better. Here the word is ‘wants’. Yes people just wants but most of them are not going to use their power of voting that can make a big difference in selecting the right candidate.

Leaving

• Relationships like life face good and bad times. The relationship that comes strong through the rough weather facing the tough times grows stronger and deeper with time. Everyone wants the same thing. But the problem is some people are so fond of their ego that they can leave everything but not their ego. So it is up to them what they want. In any case they have to leave one thing.

• The majority of the youngsters are facing the highest level of depressions in their life. They keep on cribbing this happened, that happened and along with it get indulged in drugs, smoke and alcohol. So in this case what are they leaving? They are happy cribbing, smoking, abusing and at the same time are leaving back their friends, family and opportunity to improve their life.

• There is a group of people who work hard day and night and always make an effort to triple their money by playing a gamble or speculating in the stock market. And they make gain and loss at the same time. They gain frustration and they lose money.

• People are fond of good food and these days the love is specially meant for the junk food. They have it happily but after few days the love is accompanied by the health problems. They continue with their love for junk food, and keeps on cribbing about the health issues.

Conclusion

Love it or leave it-It all depends on perception and will have different answers as per the changing situations. Somewhere loving will bring positive results somewhere leaving will. Whatever the circumstances are take the action to make things better. If cribbing can make a change, everyone is free to do that.
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  • RE: Love it or leave it – but stop cribbing about it -Deepa Kaushik (04/18/14)
  • An effective approach to life could be moving in a definite path. The life led in a dilemma is never a satisfactory one. Success follows the one who is determined, confident, takes firm decisions and sticks to the same. To have faith in self is very importance to make judgements in life.

    Loving something is not wrong, but one should have courage to walk on the path to get it. Loving and cribbing for not being able to get hold of the same, points towards a coward and loser in life. Once we have started to work along a course of action, there shouldn’t be any turning around.

    Leaving the desired thing is also an intelligent move, in case we can analyse ourselves and understand the fact that the height we are dreaming is unattainable in the practical way. Rather than trying to get the impossible and creating a nuisance for others by cribbing and strolling back and forth, it is best to leave the thing at first instance.

    Cribbing is a negative note for anyone. It does not yield anything; instead it just slows down the progress of an individual. So, just stop cribbing, be confident of your decisions in life and move ahead with a strong force.