Who is responsible for increasing incidences against females?

Who is responsible for increasing incidences against females – boys or the girls themselves?
Introduction

Rape and city has become the everyday news. The newspapers and the news channels might lose any other piece of news event, but these incidents of sexual assault are never a miss. The reason may be to increase the viewer rating, or the sale of the news magazine, but the reported incidences are the true happenings round the country. The cases are getting reported in huge numbers every day, and we should not forget the bitter truth that a lot many cases still go unreported. When we try to find the ways to check the number of incidences, we get into the analysis on the cause of these increasing incidences. We are undergoing the westernization of our culture which has inflicted almost every part of our country. In such a scenario, who should be held responsible for these increasing incidences – is that the boys or the girls?

Boys

- Boys are definitely the first cause which needs to be taught the basic manners and decency. They forget the dignity and respect for the women.

- Boys have the ego of being superior to women. They think they can control and rule women with all their physical strength. This dominating attitude aggravates the animal instinct within them.

- It is the upbringing which plays the major role. We cannot blame the whole men community, but it is the wrong upbringing which feeds filthy thoughts into their minds.

- The literacy is also another factor. Though the cases are reported against the men from all the class, still we can find an alarming increase in the incidences from the males of lower socio-economic strata and especially the ones who are illiterate or less educated.

- The civilized behaviour comes from the learning and thoughts. The inner strength and mental alertness does make the person behave more like human. The males do have the physical strength, but few of them lack the will power and internal stamina which makes them behave in an inhuman way.

Girls

- With the westernization, girls have forgotten their dressing sense. Gone are the days when Indian girls were respected for their dignified outfit. The ways in which the girls dress-up today distracts the boys and lead them to commit such an offense.

- The body language of the girls lack the decent touch and it attracts the boys. Though not every male has the same sense of vision for the females, still the mind filled with filth gets distracted much easily with the body language of the girls.

- The over-social behaviour amongst the youngsters in another cause of such increase in the incidences. The youngsters forget the line of decency in their behaviour. The girls who actually have to bear the after-effects definitely need to be more careful in their approach. Flowing away with the spirit of joy often leads to the cases of sexual-assault.

- There are incidences when the girls do use the boys for fulfilling their needs and then leaving the relationship in vain. The pride and ego of the male gets hurt and the emotionally hit male gets into such offense.

- Girls need to understand the status of life and safety for themselves in present day. They need to be extra-cautious and should try to be within the limits. We should rectify ourselves first before blaming others for the happenings.

Conclusion

It is very much acceptable that both boys and girls have their own share of responsibility in curbing such incidences across the country. It is not wrong to incorporate other culture, but we need to understand and respect our own culture and dignity and only allow the good virtues from others. Flowing away with the westernization would not be a fit to the Indian society. Instead of blaming the boys and girls alone, we need to understand the truth that our vision and ideas should correlate and should be collateral to the ideologies of our society. We need to be extra careful during the upbringing of children, teaching them the value and decency in the physical relationship and the limit which the youngsters need to maintain during their interactions. A good society with a healthy thought will definitely help in checking these incidences.